How

How can you live for someone else if you don't live for yourself first. What if living for someone else meant that you actually had to live for yourself first. For the reason that you mean so much to them that you have to do something for yourself or else you see them get hurt emotionally. Have you ever thought that your own wellbeing might be more important to those that you love than anything else that you can do for them? Or if you are not true to yourself first how can you be true to anyone else?